Leadership for Excellence!
 "Excellence can be attained if you CARE more than others think is wise, RISK more than others think is safe, DREAM more than others think is practical and, EXPECT more than others think is possible."
-Author unknown

"If in the twilight of memory we should meet once more, we shall speak again together and you shall sing to me a deeper song."
Author Unknown - contributed by Mart

 " Visions of you in Shades of Blue,   Smoking Shifting Gracefully Drifting,   My " F.O.B"  When do we meet Again"
 Excerpts from VISIONS by Clift Richard one of my favorite songs - Pepot Kanapi



Bran Muffins


The couple were 85 years old and had been married for sixty years.  Though they were far from rich they managed to get by because they watched their pennies.

Though not young they were both in very good health largely due to the wife's insistence on healthy foods and exercise for the last decade.

One day, their good health didn't help when they went on a rare vacation and their plane crashed, sending them off to Heaven.

They reached the pearly gates and St. Peter escorted them inside.  He took them to a beautiful mansion furnished in gold and fine silks, with a fully stocked kitchen and waterfall in the master bath.  A maid could be seen hanging their favorite clothes in the closet.

They gasped in astonishment when he said "Welcome to Heaven. This will be your home now."

The old man asked Peter how much all this was going to cost.  "Why, nothing, remember, this is your reward in Heaven".

The old man looked out the window and right there he saw a championship golf course, finer and more beautiful than any ever built on Earth.  "What are the green fees?" grumbled the old man.

"This is heaven, St. Peter replied. You can play for free every day."

Next they went to the Club House and saw the lavish buffet lunch laid out before them, from seafood to steak to exotic deserts, and free flowing beverages.

"Don't even ask," said St. Peter to the man. This all free for you to enjoy."

The old man looked around and glanced nervously at his wife. "Well, where are the low fat, low cholesterol foods and decaffeinated tea?" he asked.

"That's the best part" St. Peter replied. "You can eat as much as you like o
f whatever you like and you will never get fat or sick. This is Heaven!"

The old man pushed "No gym to work out at?"

"Not unless you want to" was the answer.

"No testing my sugar or blood pressure or..."

"Never again. All you do here is enjoy yourself".

The old man glared at his wife and said, "You and your Bran Muffins.  We could have been here ten years ago".

 

Isko" is a Filipino nick name for Francisco.
 
  A boy named Isko was very sad in his class..
   The teacher asked, "Isko what is your problem?"
  
 Isko answered, "I'm too smart for the first-grade. My sister is in the third grade and I'm smarter than she is. I think I should be in the  third-grade too!"
  
 The teacher had enough. She took Isko to the principal's office. 
 While Isko waited in the outer office, the teacher explained  to the principal  what the situation was. The principal told the  teacher he would give the boy a test and if he failed to answer any of the questions he was to go back to the first-grade and behave. She agreed.
  
 Isko was brought in and the conditions were explained to him and he agreed to take the test.
  
 Principal: "What is 3 x 3 ?"
  
 Isko: "9".
  
 Principal: "What is 6 x 6 ?"
  
 Isko: "36"
  
 And so it went with every question the  principal thought a third-grade should know.
  
 The principal looks at the teacher and tells her, "I think Isko can go to the third-grade. "
  
 Teacher says to the principal, " I have some of my 
 own questions. Can I ask him?"
  
 The principal and Isko both agreed.
  
 Teacher asks, "What does a cow have four of and that I have only two of?
  
 Isko: After a moment, " Legs."
  
 Teacher: "What is in your pants that you have but I do n ot have?"
  
 Isko: " Pockets "
  
 Teacher: " What starts with a C and ends with a T, is hairy, oval, delicious and contains thin whitish liquid?
  
 Isko: Coconut
  
 Teacher: What goes in hard and pink then
  comes out soft and sticky?
  
 The principal's eyes open really wide and before he could stop the  answer, Isko was taking charge.
  
 Isko: Bubblegum
  
 Teacher: What does a man do standing up, a woman does sitting down and a dog does on three legs?
  
 The principal's eyes open really wide and before he could stop the answer...
  
 Isko: Shake hands
  
 Teacher: Now I will ask some" Who am I " sort of questions, Okay?
  
 Isko: Yep.
  
 Teacher: You stick your poles inside me. You tie me down to get me up. I get wet before you do.
  
 Isko: Tent
  
 Teacher: A finger goes in me. You fiddle with me when you're bored. The best man always has me first..
  
 The principal was looking restless, a bit tense and took one  large Jack Daniel peg.
  
 Isko: Wedding Ring
  
 Teacher: I come in many sizes. When I'm not well, I drip. When you blow me, you feel good.
  
 Isko: Nose
  
 Teacher: I have a stiff shaft. My tip penetrates. I come with a quiver. 

 Isko: Arrow
  
 Teacher: What word starts with a ' F ' and ends in ' K ' that means lot  of heat and excitement?
  
 Isko: Firetruck
  
 Teacher: What starts with a ' F ' and ends in 'K ' and if you don't get it, you have to use your hand.
  
 Isko: Fork
  
 Teacher: What is it that all men have one. It's longer on some men,  than others, the pope doesn't use his and a man gives it to his wife after they're married?
  
 Isko: SURNAME
  
 Teacher: What part of the man has no bone but has muscles, has lots of veins, like pumping, and is responsible for making love ?
  
 Isko: HEART
  
 The principal breathed a sigh of relief and said to 
 the Teacher:  
 
 "Send this Boy to Harvard University !! Even I got the  last ten questions wrong myself!" 




YOU ARE MY SUNSHINE

 You are My Sunshine, My only Sunshine" (Be prepared to get watery eyes!)
 
Like any good mother, when Karen found out that another baby was on the way, she did what she could to help her 3-year-old son, Michael, prepare for a new sibling. They found out that the new baby was going be a girl, and day after day, night after night, Michael sang to his sister in mommy's tummy. He was building a bond of love with his little sister before he even met her. The pregnancy progressed normally for Karen, an active member of the Panther Creek United MethodistChurch in Morristown , Tennessee .

 In time, the labor pains came. Soon it was every five minutes, every three, every minute. But serious complications arose during delivery and Karen found herself in hours of labor. Would a C-section be required? Finally, after a long struggle,
Michael's little sister was born. But she was in very serious condition. With a siren howling in the night, the ambulance rushed the infant to the neonatal intensive care unit at St. Mary's Hospital, Knoxville ,Tennessee. The days inched by. The little girl got worse. The pediatrician had to tell the parents there is very
little hope. Be prepared for the worst. Karen and her husband contacted a local
cemetery about a burial plot. They had fixed up a special room in their house for
their new baby but now they found themselves having to plan for a funeral.
Michael, however, kept begging his parents to let him see his sister. I want to sing to her, he kept saying. Week two in intensive care looked as if a funeral
would come before the week was over. Michael kept nagging about singing to his sister, but kids are never allowed in Intensive Care. Karen decided to take Michael whether they liked it or not. If he didn't see his sister right then, he may never see her alive. She dressed him in an oversized scrub suit and marched him into ICU. I
looked like a walking laundry basket.  The head nurse recognized him as a child and  bellowed, "Get that kid out of here now. No children are allowed." The mother rose up strong in Karen, and the usually mild-mannered lady glared steel-eyed right into the head nurse's face, her lips a firm line. "He is not leaving until he sings to his sister" she stated. Then Karen towed Michael to his sister's bedside.

 He gazed at the tiny infant losing the battle to live. After a moment, he began to sing In the pure-hearted voice of a 3-year-old, Michael sang: "You are my sunshine, my only sun shine, you make me happy when skies are gray." Instantly the baby girl seemed to respond. The pulse rate began to calm down and become steady. "Keep on singing, Michael,"encouraged Karen with tears in her eyes. "You never know, dear, how much I love you, please don't take my sunshine away." As Michael sang to his sister, the baby's ragged, strained breathing became as smooth as a kitten's purr. "Keep on singing, sweetheart." "The other night, dear, as I lay sleeping, I dreamed I held you in my arms". Michael's little sister began to 
relax as rest, healing rest, seemed to sweep over her."Keep on singing, Michael." Tears had now conquered the face of he bossy head nurse. Karen glowed. "You are my sunshine , my only sunshine. Please don't take my sunshine away..."

The next day...the very next day...the little girl was well enough to go home. Woman's Day Magazine called it The Miracle of a Brother's
Song. The medical staff just called it a miracle. Karen called it a miracle of God's love.

 NEVER GIVE UP ON THE PEOPLE YOU LOVE.  LOVE IS SO INCREDIBLY POWERFUL. Life is good.





This story is amazing....
 
In September 1960, I woke up one morning with six hungry babies and just 75 cents in my pocket.

Their father was gone.

The boys ranged from three months to seven years; their sister was two.

Their Dad had never been much more than a presence they feared.

Whenever they heard his tires crunch on the gravel driveway they would scramble to hide under their beds.

He did manage to leave $15 a week to buy groceries.

Now that he had decided to leave, there would be no more beatings, but no food either.

If there was a welfare system in effect in southern Indiana at that time, I certainly knew nothing about it.

I scrubbed the kids until they looked brand new and then put on my best homemade dress, loaded them into the rusty old 51 Chevy and drove off to find a job.

The seven of us went to every factory, store and restaurant in our small town.

No luck.

The kids stayed crammed into the car and tried to be quiet while I tried to convince who ever would listen that I was willing to learn or do anything. I had to have a job.

Still no luck. The last place we went to, just a few miles out of town, was an old Root Beer Barrel drive-in that had been converted to a truck stop.

It was called the Big Wheel.

An old lady named Granny owned the place and she peeked out of the window from time to time at all those kids.

She needed someone on the graveyard shift, 11 at night until seven in the morning.

She paid 65 cents an hour, and I could start that night.

I raced home and called the teenager down the street that baby-sat for people.

I bargained with her to come and sleep on my sofa for a dollar a night.

She could arrive with her pajamas on and the kids would already be asleep

This seemed like a good arrangement to her, so we made a deal.

That night when the little ones and I knelt to say our prayers, we all thanked God for finding Mommy a job. And so I started at the Big Wheel.

When I got home in the mornings I woke the baby-sitter up and sent her home with one dollar of my tip money-- fully half of what I averaged every night.

As the weeks went by, heating bills added a strain to my meager wage.

The tires on the old Chevy had the consistency of penny balloons and began to leak. I had to fill them with air on the way to work and again every morning before I could go home.

One bleak fall morning, I dragged myself to the car to go home and found four tires in the back seat. New tires!

There was no note, no nothing, just those beautiful brand new tires.

Had angels taken up residence in Indiana? I wondered.

I made a deal with the local service station.

In exchange for his mounting the new tires, I would clean up his office.

I remember it took me a lot longer to scrub his floor than it did for him to do the tires.

I was now working six nights instead of five and it still wasn't enough.

Christmas was coming and I knew there would be no money for toys for the kids.

I found a can of red paint and started repairing and painting some old toys. Then I hid them in the basement so there would be something for Santa to deliver on Christmas morning.

Clothes were a worry too. I was sewing patches on top of patches on the boys pants and soon they would be too far gone to repair.

On Christmas Eve the usual customers were drinking coffee in the Big Wheel. There were the truckers, Les, Frank, and Jim, and a state trooper named Joe.

A few musicians were hanging around after a gig at the Legion and were dropping nickels in the pinball machine.

The regulars all just sat around and talked through the wee hours of the morning and then left to get home before the sun came up.

When it was time for me to go home at seven o'clock on Christmas morning, to my amazement, my old battered Chevy was filled full to the top with boxes of all shapes and sizes.

I quickly opened the driver's side door, crawled inside and kneeled in the front facing the back seat.

Reaching back, I pulled off the lid of the top box.

Inside was whole case of little blue jeans, sizes 2-10!

I looked inside another box: It was full of shirts to go with the jeans

Then I peeked inside some of the other boxes.
 
There was candy and nuts and bananas and bags of groceries. There was an enormous ham for baking, and canned vegetables and potatoes.
There was pudding and Jell-O and cookies, pie filling and flour. There was whole bag of laundry supplies and cleaning items.

And there were five toy trucks and one beautiful little doll.

As I drove back through empty streets as the sun slowly rose on the most amazing Christmas Day of my life, I was sobbing with gratitude.

And I will never forget the joy on the faces of my little ones that precious morning.

Yes, there were angels in Indiana that long-ago December. And they all hung out at the Big Wheel truck stop.... 






 


GLASS OF MILK
One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry. 

He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. 

Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water! She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk.. He drank it so slowly, and then asked, "How much do I owe you?"

"You don't owe me anything," she replied. "Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness." 


He said, "Then I thank you from my heart."

As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.. 


Many years later, that same young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. 

Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes.

Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room.

Dressed in his doctor's gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. 

He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to her case. 


After a long struggle, the battle was won. 

Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She read these words ..

"Paid in full with one glass of milk"

(Signed) Dr. Howard Kelly

A Beautiful story.... makes you understand that things happen for a reason  
 
The brand new pastor and his wife, newly assigned to their first ministry, to reopen a church in suburban Brooklyn , arrived in early October excited about their opportunities When they saw their church, it was very run down and needed much work. They set a goal to have everything done in time to have their first service on Christmas Eve.
 
They worked hard, repairing pews, plastering walls,painting, etc, and on December 18 were ahead of schedule and just about finished.
On December 19 a terrible tempest - a driving rainstorm hit the area and lasted for two days. On the 21st, the pastor went over to the church.
His heart sank when he saw that the roof had leaked, causing a large area of plaster about 20 feet by 8 feet to fall off the front wall of the sanctuary just behind the pulpit, beginning about head high.
The pastor cleaned up the mess on the floor,and not knowing what else to do but postpone the Christmas Eve service, headed home. On the way he noticed that a local business was having a flea market type sale for charity so he
stopped in. One of the items was a beautiful, handmade, ivory colored, crocheted tablecloth with exquisite work, fine colors and a Cross
embroidered right in the center. It was just the right size to cover up the hole in the front wall. He bought it and headed back to the church.

B y this time it had started to snow. An older woman running from the opposite direction was trying to catch the bus.. She missed it. The pastor invited her to wait in the warm church for the next bus 45 minutes later. She sat in a pew and paid no attention to the pastor while he got a ladder, hangers, etc., to put up the tablecloth as a wall tapestry. The pastor could hardly believe how beautiful it looked and it covered up the entire problem area. Then he noticed the woman walking down the center aisle. Her face was like a sheet.. "Pastor,"she asked, "where did you get that tablecloth?" The pastor explained. The woman asked him to check the lower right corner to see if the initials,EBG were crocheted into it there. They were. These were the initials of the woman, and she had made this tablecloth 35 years before, in Austria The woman could hardly believe it as the pastor told how he had just gotten the Tablecloth. The woman explained that before the war she and her husband were well-to-do people in Austria . When the Nazis came, she was forced to leave. Her husband was going to follow her the next week. He was captured, sent to prison and never saw her husband or her home again. The pastor wanted to give her the tablecloth; but she made the pastor keep it for the church. 

The pastor insisted on driving her home, that was the least he could do.. She lived on the other side of
Staten Island and was only in Brooklyn
 for the day for a housecleaning job. What a wonderful service they had on Christmas
Eve. The church was almost full. The music and the spirit were great. At the end of the service, the pastor and his wife greeted everyone at the door
and many said that they would return. One older man, whom the pastor recognized from the neighborhood continued to sit in one of the pews and stare, and the pastor wondered why he wasn't leaving. The man asked him where he got the tablecloth on the front wall because it was identical to one that his wife had made years ago when they lived in
Austria
before the war and how
could there be two tablecloths so much alike. He told the pastor how the Nazis came, how he forced his wife to flee for her safety and he was supposed to follow her, but he was arrested and put in a prison.. He never saw his wife or his home again all the 35 years in between.The pastor asked him if he would allow him to take him for a little ride. They drove to
Staten Island
and to the same house where the pastor had taken the woman three days earlier.
He helped the man climb the three flights of stairs to the woman's apartment, knocked on the door and he saw the greatest Christmas reunion he could ever imagine.
True Story - submitted by Pastor Rob Reid




 




The Daffodil Principle

Several times my daughter had telephoned to say, "Mother, you must
come see the daffodils before they are over." I wanted to go, but it was a
two-hour drive from Laguna to Lake Arrowhead.
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"I will come next Tuesday," I promised, a little reluctantly, on her
third call.

Next Tuesday dawned cold and rainy. Still, I had promised, and so I
drove there. When I finally walked into Carolyn's house and hugged and
greeted my grandchildren, I said, "Forget the daffodils, Carolyn! The
road is invisible in the clouds and fog, and there is nothing in the world
except you and these children that I want to see bad enough to drive
another inch!"

My daughter smiled calmly and said, "We drive in this all the time,
Mother."

"Well, you won't get me back on the road until it clears, and then I'm
heading for home!" I assured her.

"I was hoping you'd take me over to the garage to pick up my car."

"How far will we have to drive?"

"Just a few blocks," Carolyn said. "I'll drive. I'm used to this."

After several minutes, I had to ask, "Where are we going? This isn't
the way to the garage!"

"We're going to my garage the long way," Carolyn smiled, "by way of
the daffodils."

"Carolyn," I said sternly, "please turn around."

"It's all right, Mother, I promise. You will never forgive yourself if
you miss this experience."

After about twenty minutes, we turned onto a small gravel road and I
saw a small church. On the far side of the church, I saw a hand-lettered
sign that read, "Daffodil Garden." We got out of the car and each took
a child's hand, and I followed Carolyn down the path. Then, we turned a
corner of the path, and I looked up and gasped. Before me lay the most
glorious sight. It looked as though someone had taken a great vat of
gold and poured it down over the mountain peak and slopes. The flowers
were planted in majestic, swirling patterns-great ribbons and swaths of
deep orange, white, lemon yellow, salmon pink, saffron, and butter
yellow. Each different-colored variety was planted as a group so that
it swirled and flowed like its own river with its own unique hue. There
were five acres of flowers.

"But who has done this?" I asked Carolyn.

"It's just one woman," Carolyn answered. "She lives on the property.
That's her home." Carolyn pointed to a well kept A frame house that
looked small and modest in the midst of all that glory. We walked up to
the house. On the patio, we saw a poster. "Answers to the Questions I Know
You Are Asking" was the headline.

The first answer was a simple one. "50,000 bulbs," it read. The second
answer was, "One at a time, by one woman. Two hands, two feet, and very
little brain." The third answer was, "Began in 1958." There it was, The
Daffodil Principle. For me, that moment was a life-changing experience.

I thought of this woman whom I had never met, who, more than forty
years before, had begun-one bulb at a time-to bring her vision of beauty
and joy to an obscure mountain top. Still, just planting one bulb at a
time, year after year, had changed the world. This unknown woman had
forever changed the world in which she lived. She had created
something of ineffable (indescribable) magnificence, beauty, and
inspiration. The principle her daffodil garden taught is one of the
greatest
principles of celebration.

That is, learning to move toward our goals and desires one step at a
time-often just one baby-step at a time-and learning to love the doing,
learning to use the accumulation of time. When we multiply tiny pieces
of time with small increments of daily effort, we too will find we can
accomplish magnificent things. We can change the world.

"It makes me sad in a way," I admitted to Carolyn. "What might I have
accomplished if I had thought of a wonderful goal thirty-five or forty
years ago and had worked away at it 'one bulb at a time' through all
those years. Just think what I might have been able to achieve!"

My daughter summed up the message of the day in her usual direct way.
"Start tomorrow," she said. It's so pointless to think of the lost
hours of yesterdays. The way to make learning a lesson of celebration
instead of a cause for regret is to only ask, "How can I put this to use
today?"

-- Author Unknown









 




this is a classic. enjoy!  Si Dan, taga Bicol:

Dumating si Dan sa Amerika sa tulong ng kanyang Kumpare na may kontak sa immigration sa Pilipinas. Medyo tagilid ang papeles niya kaya masyado siyang maingat (TNT baga). Ayaw man lang lumabas ng bahay si Dan kung hindi kasama ang kanyang kumpare.

E minsan, nagsawa na ang kanyang kumpare sa kaaalalay sa kanya.  "Pareng Dan," sabi ng kumpareng tinatago ang inis, "Heto ang susi ng kotse at mga credit cards ko. Magshopping ka naman sa Mall para malibang ka." "Kung may problema ka, tawagan mo ako sa telepono.Papasok na ako sa opisina."  

Dahil siguro sa hiya ni
Dan, kahit nerbiyos na nerbiyos siya, sinubukan niyang lumabas. Tuwang-tuwa si Dan sa pamamasyal sa mall. Nakapili siya ng mga damit na gusto niya. Ngunit pagdating sa cashier, biglang nataranta at natakot si Dan.

Tanong ng cashier, "Visa or Master Card?" Karipas si Dan palabas dahit sa takot! "Aba, hinahanap ang visa ko! Baka nabisto na ako! Syet!"

Sakay kaagad siya sa kanyang kotse.  Harurot. Kaso, halos wala ng gas ang sasakyan kaya huminto siya sa isang gas station. Nang maglalagay na siya ng gas, biglang nagsalita ang cashier sa speaker, "Sir, pay first, please."

"Naku, patay! Papers daw! Hinahanap ang papers ko!" Nagtatakbo si Dan sa mga eski-eskinita hanggang makakita siya ng pay phone. Patago-tago siyang lumapit sa payphone.

"(Hingal) Kailangang matawagan ... ko si kumpare...para masundo niya ako rito (hingal)."

Pagtaas niya ng handle ng telepono, narinig niya, "AT&T how can I help you?" "Aba, anak ng putakteh, alam na TNT ako! Buking na ako!"

Pagbaba niya ng telepono, may Amerikanong nakatayo sa likod niya, tanong ba naman, "Are you done?"

Napahandusay si Dan sa phonebooth. Biglang bulalas, "Buray kan ina!, alam pa ang pangalan ko!"

Nagulat ang tisoy, "Hey, be cool, man!" "Naku! Alam pa kung taga saan ako!" "Is that your green car parked in the red zone?"

Hihimatayin na si Danny Boy! "Hinahanapan pa ako ng green card"!!!!!

Kaya sa matinding takot, nagpahuli na lang si Dan. Ngayon si Dan ay nasa Bicol na muli at binansagan na

"Dan Balikbayan."






 

Kining Balaka Pahinungod Sa mga bisaya

PANAMILIT

Bug-at mang pas-anong mga kamingaw nga bati-on
layo mang kab-oton mga bahanding idlas dakpon
Paet mang talikdan mga mahal akong handomon
Bugtong paagi sa kalisdanan mga mahal akong haw-ason.

Pugngi pinnangga, pugnging mga luha,
Mga kagol-anan ug pagsubo, ilo-om ning dughang guba
Sa akong pagtalikod, balonong mga nangaging hudyaka
Kay uban sa mabug-atong mga lakang mananghid ang tanang himaya.

Pag-amping pinangga, Oh ikaduha kong bathala,
Tanan kong panimpalad dalit kanimo Oh akong mutya,
Dawaton kong mga pag-antos, i-halad mga nangagay kong luha
Lamang tanang mga pangandoy makab-ot, walog nga tinguha.

Pogosnong pahiyom, uyamot nga kalipay,
mga binhing mitubo uhaw sa imong pagmahal
malolot mong mga mata tanghaga ang mga panglantaw,
Hinog mong mga ngabil, bo-ot mamulong puno sa kauhaw

Ug sa katapusan mga higala di man masugid k’ing na-amggong kasakit,
Kay daw punyal ug espada gatusok sa kasing-kasing ming ti-urok
Mga matam-ison mong halok ug nangalimyong kahomot
Dinhi sa akong huna-huna, nagpabiling di gyod mahurot.

Atangi ang sunod nga mga yugto. Padayonon….

kalimti ayaw kining imong ubos nga higala, ug sinikmahan pa sa palad.

Sinulat ni,

ROGER L. ESTEBAT



 

"Sometimes our light goes out but is blown again into flame by an encounter with another human being. Each of us owes the deepest thanks to those who have rekindled this inner light."
Albert Schweitzer said these words and how very true they are. We've all had times in our life when we desperately needed a "shot of inspiration" to move forward. Kate Nowak, has written a beautiful book that truly brings this idea to life. May You Be Blessed is not about religious beliefs...it's about joy, appreciation, kindness and love. It is filled with inspiring stories, beautiful photographs and life-changing insights. I loved it and think you will too.
Today, I'd like to share Kate's introduction, which tells the story behind...May You Be Blessed. Enjoy!
Introduction
Excerpt from May You Be Blessed
by Kate Nowak
It happened a few days after my father's death, in that mind-numbing period of adjustment after someone we love leaves us. Having gone shopping for necessities for my trip back to my own home, I was standing in an otherwise empty aisle of a large chain store when suddenly I sneezed, the last vestiges of an allergy attack I'd fought earlier in the week.
Almost instantly, from the next aisle over I heard a voice call out, "Bless you," and then another, and another, and yet another. All in all, in the span of only a few seconds, I counted eleven different voices coming from every possible direction in the store, some saying "God bless you," others using the word "gezundheit," but all blessing me, all calling good down upon me.
At first I thought little of it. After all the idea of blessing someone when they sneeze is rooted in superstition, an archaic belief that in the act of sneezing the soul is thrown from the body, and a blessing is needed for spiritual protection.
Today, it is usually offered as no more than a courtesy, a polite response that has come to be socially accepted and expected. But on that particular day, in the first few moments following all those blessings being called out to me, I began to notice a difference in myself: A slight shift in perception that left me feeling more connected and empowered than I had in days. It also left me, for the first time since my father's passing, more confident that everything would be all right.
Driving back to my father's house that day, I continued periodic "feelings" checks, marveling at how much stronger I felt. Later, sitting in my parent's kitchen for what would be one of the last times, I recounted the story to my stepmother. "Do you think any of them realized what they were saying?" she asked. "Or was it just out of habit?"
"Just habit," I answered with a shrug, thinking about what a shame it was that people could give such a needed gift as a blessing and not even be aware of what they had done. "It should be a habit, this business of blessing others," I said a moment later. "But it would be nice if people actually knew they could and were making a difference."
A seed was planted that day and two years later it sprouted, awakening me one morning to a gentle soul-whisper that poured forth as the words of a special blessing. Feeling compelled to take pen and paper from my nightstand, I prodded myself into full wakefulness and then sat on the edge of the bed, like a secretary poised for dictation, pen ready to capture each syllable as the inspired words flowed into my awareness.
Because of the power of the internet, those words have since been sent across the planet and read by millions, and as a result, I have received thousands of letters from people telling me how May You Be Blessed has impacted their lives. And in each and every instance I have found myself blessed in return.
I have often wondered since if my new found work as a dispatcher of blessings is the result of a serendipitous accident that placed me in a crowded store on a day when I was both prone to sneeze, and to listen to subtle nudges from the heart. Or was it, perhaps, that my father's gentle spirit was present that day, inspiring others to offer blessings so that I might be lifted up?
Of course, it is a question I cannot answer, but I do know that since that time my life has changed remarkably. Each day is now entirely centered on the act of blessing and I have come to recognize it not only as one of the most powerful and practical ways we have for reconnecting with each other, our world and Life itself, but also the most phenomenal way possible to lead us to happiness and success. It is a discovery I now endeavor daily to share with all.
A blessing, I have come to realize, is a sweet release from pain; a sacred reminder that we are made of love and light and goodness and, as such, part of a greater and most wondrous whole. It is an ancient key to a successful and fulfilling life.
Today, whenever I share with others this phenomenal key, explaining how, as we each develop the habit of blessing others we are blessing our own lives, as well, I feel as if I have been given a wonderful gift. I realize once again how truly blessed I am. It is my hope that as you read this book and allow the words of this blessing to enter your heart, you will be blessed in return. I could not ask for anything sweeter to my soul than that.
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